The rage of the Sun, the harmony of Music. Just a blog about random shit that I think about. Also, one of those blogs that will reblog stuff from time to time. If you're a porn blog that wants to follow me, don't bother with that b/c I'll just block you. I enjoy music, mainly Rock. I enjoy American Horror Story, Halloween, and riding my bike. Also, I'm an all-around gamer, and I also like geodes, memes, succulents, and witches. I can get political as fuck, and I don't think that reality TV stars should apply for positions-of-power.
Why are people having so much issue with the article, I agreed with it? The title isn’t the most eloquent thing ever but the article wasn’t encouraging cheating, where you go behind your partners back, but instead looking at the issue of cheating as a not black-and-white thing where there’s one horribly evil person who just wanted to have fun/get laid with one traumatized-for-life victim. Instead, like most- nah, let me say with ANYTHING in real life beyond fiction, the article sees the grays in cheating and why the person cheated in the first place. Not to say that cheating isn’t a horrible thing to do, but I feel like people need to understand that there are reasons people do the things they do. People who cheat are human beings. They could feel horrible about it, they could be trapped in a marriage or relationship that they don’t feel they can escape, they can feel insecure and unloved. Again, not to say it’s something you should ever do, but dehumanizing someone over a mistake is just as bad in my opinion. There’s nowhere where they can talk about their experiences, and it’s likely we know a lot of people who have cheated in our lives even if they haven’t (or were too scared) to tell us about it.
As a nursing student, I can attest to the amount of bullying and horrible behavior I’ve seen from fellow nursing students. One of the students in my school’s nursing program got kicked out because she was bullying her own patient…
My mom is also a nurse and she has both witnessed AND personally experienced bullying from her fellow nurses. My dad is a nurse as well and has had his own coworkers try to sabatoge him.
This is called “lateral/horizontal violence” and it’s sadly prevalent in the Nursing profession.
It’s crazy looking back on how my parents would say food is expensive and guilt us about spending money but they made no effort to buy cheaper alternatives or use coupons or anything. My mom would always get Bimbo bread because we all like white Bread, but she could have just bought any white Bread. Bimbo is 3$ per loaf, and the cheapest loaf I’ve seen is like 89cents per loaf.
And it’s just not my mom, I’ve seen other Hispanic moms get Bimbo bread when there’s much cheaper bread everywhere. Heck this Everything French bread was $1.
Parents do better with money and don’t guilt kids about spending so much on them challenge!
